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\u017divot s\u00e1m o sob\u011b nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00fd. To ostatn\u011b na vlastn\u00ed o\u010di a takt\u00e9\u017e k\u016f\u017ei jednou poc\u00edt\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s. Podstatnou roli v tom sehr\u00e1v\u00e1 i sama lidsk\u00e1 psychika, je\u017e v mnoh\u00e9m ovliv\u0148uje pr\u00e1v\u011b kvalitu na\u0161eho byt\u00ed a takt\u00e9\u017e m\u00e1 i v\u00fdrazn\u00fd pod\u00edl na na\u0161em pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm skonu.<\/p>\n

A p\u0159itom to v\u0161e za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 tak nevinn\u011b. \u010clov\u011bk se narod\u00ed a od po\u010d\u00e1tku mus\u00ed spol\u00e9hat pr\u00e1v\u011b na svoji genetickou v\u00fdbavu. Od \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku se u\u010d\u00ed pozn\u00e1vat sv\u011bt a postupn\u011b v sob\u011b objevuje dovednosti, je\u017e mu jsou pozd\u011bji jak k dobru, tak bohu\u017eel i ku neprosp\u011bchu. Takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk se pak h\u00e1j\u00ed, kdy\u017e se dopust\u00ed n\u011b\u010deho opravdu velmi z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9ho, \u017ee za nic nem\u016f\u017ee, \u017ee na vin\u011b naopak jsou jeho pudy, kter\u00e9 ho k dan\u00e9mu proh\u0159e\u0161ku dohnaly, le\u010d v\u011bt\u0161inou si t\u00edm je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce p\u0159it\u00ed\u017e\u00ed: v tom lep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b je um\u00edst\u011bn do l\u00e9\u010debny, v tom hor\u0161\u00edm pak skon\u010d\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo ve v\u011bzen\u00ed. A p\u0159itom by sta\u010dilo tak m\u00e1lo a sice vyhledat onen problematick\u00fd prvek v lidsk\u00e9 psychice a z mozku ho jednodu\u0161e pot\u00e9 natrvalo odstranit.<\/p>\n

Bohu\u017eel n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho sou\u010dasn\u00e1 medic\u00edna neum\u00ed a je ot\u00e1zkou, zdali v dohledn\u00e9 \u010di v je\u0161t\u011b vzd\u00e1len\u011bj\u0161\u00ed budoucnosti bude n\u011b\u010deho takov\u00e9ho v\u016fbec schopna. Mus\u00edme si uv\u011bdomit jedno d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 a sice \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bka jako takov\u00e9ho nelze p\u0159\u00edmo vinit z toho \u010di onoho z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9ho proh\u0159e\u0161ku. Z velk\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti je na vin\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b ona psychika, je\u017e mu na\u0159izuje, co m\u00e1 vykonat. A pokud tak pod jej\u00edm n\u00e1tlakem neu\u010din\u00ed, s\u00e1m se stane mu\u010den\u00fdm. Mezi takov\u00e9 jedince \u010di dokonce skupiny se \u0159ad\u00ed vrazi, z\u00e1vistivci, ti, co dobrovoln\u011b hodlaj\u00ed plnit si t\u0159in\u00e1ct\u00e9 komnaty \u010di p\u0159\u00edmo sebevrazi jako\u017eto i psychicky nemocn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

V\u00edm, \u017ee mnoz\u00ed z v\u00e1s se mnou nebudou patrn\u011b souhlasit, obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b pak ti, kte\u0159\u00ed vinou mnou v\u00fd\u0161e jmenovan\u00fdch p\u0159i\u0161li o n\u011bkoho bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho, i p\u0159esto si v\u0161ak za sv\u00fdm vpravd\u011b kontroverzn\u00edm tvrzen\u00edm stoj\u00edm. I j\u00e1 jsem si toti\u017e pro\u0161el bou\u0159liv\u00fdm obdob\u00edm, kdy jsem nedobrovoln\u011b zakusil poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed ze strany vlastn\u00ed psychiky.<\/p>\n

P\u0159itom to v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b rovn\u011b\u017e za\u010dalo nevinn\u011b. Odmala jsem vyr\u016fstal v harmonick\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed, milov\u00e1n jak rodinou tak i sv\u00fdmi nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edmi. Rovn\u011b\u017e ve \u0161kole se mi v r\u00e1mci studijn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011bch\u016f vedlo celkem obstojn\u011b. Abych to obecn\u011b shrnul: zhruba do poloviny devades\u00e1t\u00fdch let se mi da\u0159ilo vych\u00e1zet se sebou sam\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

Jen\u017ee pak to p\u0159i\u0161lo! Po n\u00e1vratu z dovolen\u00e9 z francouzsk\u00e9 Korsiky jsem na sob\u011b za\u010d\u00ednal poci\u0165ovat zna\u010dnou \u00fanavu a tehdy se poprv\u00e9 o slovo poprv\u00e9 v\u00fdrazn\u011bji p\u0159ihl\u00e1silo m\u00e9 druh\u00e9 j\u00e1, p\u0159eb\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed uvnit\u0159 mne samotn\u00e9ho s t\u00edm, \u017ee v dohledn\u00e9 budoucnosti nebudu m\u00edt n\u00e1rok na stabiln\u00ed pr\u00e1ci \u010di pouhou brig\u00e1du, \u017ee um\u0159u bolestivou smrt\u00ed \u010di \u017ee se budu muset \u00fa\u010dastnit rodinn\u00fdch poh\u0159b\u016f, a vedle toho \u017ee mne mine stabiln\u00ed vztah a v neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b existen\u010dn\u011b postihne povinn\u00e1 vojensk\u00e1 slu\u017eba.<\/p>\n

V\u011bt\u0161inu z toho jsem jak\u017e tak\u017e dok\u00e1zal ust\u00e1t, nebo\u0165 n\u011bjak\u00e1 ta pr\u00e1ce \u010di placen\u00e1 brig\u00e1da se nakonec p\u0159eci jen na\u0161la a povinn\u00e9 vojensk\u00e9 slu\u017eb\u011b jsem se d\u00edky studiu na posledn\u00ed chv\u00edli dok\u00e1zal vyhnout. Kdo v\u0161ak mohl tu\u0161it, \u017ee bude zru\u0161ena, j\u00e1 byl toti\u017e p\u016fvodn\u011b odveden!<\/p>\n

I tak ve mne jist\u00e1 traumata nad\u00e1le z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed pln\u011b zako\u0159en\u011bna. Zejm\u00e9na m\u011b neopustil strach z on\u00e9 smrti: bude bolestiv\u00e1 a co po ni nast\u00e1v\u00e1? Ono nezn\u00e1mo mi tak ned\u00e1v\u00e1 sp\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

Pokud se tedy i vy na vlastn\u00ed nebezpe\u010d\u00ed hodl\u00e1te p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit o tom, jak z\u00e1ludn\u00e1 a vychytral\u00e1 je va\u0161e vlastn\u00ed psychika, \u00fapln\u011b posta\u010d\u00ed, abyste zasedli do k\u0159esla, sami sob\u011b za\u010dali pokl\u00e1dat ot\u00e1zky a bez vlastn\u00edho p\u0159i\u010din\u011bn\u00ed nechali pr\u00e1v\u011b sv\u00e9 podv\u011bdom\u00ed, aby v\u00e1m samo za sebe na n\u011b bez obalu a p\u0159\u00edkras na rovinu odpov\u011bd\u011blo. A sami pak poc\u00edt\u00edte, jak v\u00e1s nejednou p\u0159\u00edmo zamraz\u00ed!<\/p>\n

Proto se v\u00e1s tentokr\u00e1t m\u00e1m v pl\u00e1nu pt\u00e1t na n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed: Vyzkou\u0161eli byste si mnou v\u00fd\u0161e uvedenou metodu rozhovor\u016f se sebou samotn\u00fdmi? Souhlas\u00edte se v\u0161\u00edm, co jsem ohledn\u011b dan\u00e9 psychiky zde uvedl? Nebo naopak proti m\u00fdm tvrzen\u00edm m\u00e1te jist\u00e9 v\u00fdhrady? Zradilo v\u00e1s va\u0161e podv\u011bdom\u00ed n\u011bkdy? A pokud ano, jak jste se v dan\u00e9 situaci zachovali, pop\u0159\u00edpad\u011b v\u0161e vy\u0159e\u0161ili?<\/p>\n

Pros\u00edm, dejte mi v\u011bd\u011bt na tuto moji eldarovou webovou str\u00e1nku \u010di p\u0159\u00edmo do facebookov\u00e9 skupiny \u201eCity Means \u2013 M\u011bsto pln\u00e9 n\u00e1vrat\u016f\u201c. Klidn\u011b mi sem na web napi\u0161te pod smy\u0161lenou emailovou adresou, pokud nechcete uv\u00e9sti z bezpe\u010dnostn\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f svoji skute\u010dnou. Nikdo se za to na v\u00e1s zlobit nebude.<\/p>\n

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